you and your friend’s office one accord, and companions. However, not all things can you tell me. Here’s 7 forbidden topic for discussion with a friend’s office even though he was your best friend.

Your salary
This is a very sensitive topic at the show rumored to lunch. Many companies have warned employees not to divulge salary each other. How close was the relationship with a friend, you should avoid open-opener about it. Let the size of your salary that you just received, HRD manager, HRD and wall space are known. If friends force you to tell, please switch the conversation to other topics. ” Or, if he still keukeuh, just replied diplomatically, “Well, you wage.”

If you divulge this secret and its impact on the atmosphere that the office is not fun, you will be treated as people who can not hold firm beliefs.

Pile Work
A mounting pile of work and deadlines are unreasonable’s still no reason to spread the virus to bete your colleagues. Complaining about work colleagues is not the solution to solve your problem. Is the vent to friends, your work will be reduced? Does your friend live out his hand to offer help? Well, I think not.

If every time you get a difficult job just complain and complain, it could endanger your career. Your boss will think you are not lazy and inefficient and can not handle the pressure. So, rather than your mouth foaming vent to and fro, it’s better to sit in the place, listen to music if necessary, and try to finish the job best. Believe me, no movie had ended, no work could be completed if you really do.

Dispute with the boss
Usually you see with the boss’s affection. In the meeting, you and he mutually supportive. At recess, you and he ate lunch at a table. Later, you are no longer in line with the boss. And, these changes visible in the eyes of my friends. The issue is, should you care about your friend’s assessment? Should you then talk at length about the dispute with the boss? Better not.

When you talk to everybody, you may be stamped troublemaker. Because, you are considered “inciting” or give a bad influence colleagues to hate your boss. If it’s like this, it is not impossible the way your career will stoped by people who do not like. The best step is the key to meeting your mouth.

Others ugliness
Establishing friendships with peers is not enough to have lunch ritual. There are rules that need to be understood, of whom still maintain professionalism. Does your relationship with one’s good or bad, avoid talking about the negative things about your friends to other colleagues. For example, discussing the bad taste of clothes, his personal life, or job. Believe me, not everyone is happy with what you discuss this. They will assess your weight gossiper, childish, and so forth. Bad Attitude will affect your career step toward the top.

Health History
You are often attacked by migraine? Your asthma or recur frequently in the rainy season? Avoid telling colleagues. Your health history is not for public consumption. Talking about personal health issues invite risk. You’ll be seen as a sickly person that can not give you the best for the company. It is not possible promotion in sight off just because the boss got the information that you often get a migraine when deadlines.

Personal life
It often happens, so feel close to someone, we may disclose all the personal secrets. Again going together with whom, how many times broken, and her boyfriend disappeared in the middle of the road is not information you can to co-workers for lunch. Maybe they are not so interested in other people’s private matters. So, should avoid talking about things like this. For some people, you will look sad when you’re so easy indulgence of personal problems to others.

SARA
Is not the right place to open all things related to SARA in the office. It is a sensitive issue that could have hurt myself. Especially for you new people. You never know the company you work that still discriminate or not. Surely you do not want a career hampered because of racial intolerance, so keep secrets for this one problem.

Office is the expected social environment so that you can be professional. Business is business, friendship is friendship . So keep in mind: Business is business, friendship is friendship.

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